My grand-uncle has been diagnosed with prostate cancer, while scanning his body an aneurysm was found on his aorta. His wife is an ovarian cancer survivor, so having that enemy come back has to be traumatic. It makes me especially sad because we both loved Superman. About 12 years ago he adopted two children (a boy and girl) have who have grown up into a sweet young man and woman. The young woman has been reaching out to us and I thought it was okay to talk with her. She got really friendly on the chat and I had to make a "gotta go bye" excuse. I knew that years ago she had a crush on me but it appeared to flare up again. TL;DR - The person I want to hug the most, is going to see it as a romantic advance, so I can't.