Oh my god, your husband dated a furry also? It sucks really, especially if you didn't find out until after the fact.
Furries suck.
This is one of those situations, that you now have to explain.
My ex, let's call him Anthracite, was a furry. I didn't know this when we dated. Our relationship ended because I got tired of the fact that we never went out together, that we always hung out with my friends but never his, and that when we did go out, it always a movie, a hole-in-the-wall pizza place, or for Chinese. We still talked afterwards, occasionally playing D&D. He wanted to play a psion and I didn't have the PDF for it and couldn't make it work on my computer so I went over to his place to look at it and watch for Buffy. While there I accidentally stumbled on some of his furry porn on his compy. I found a reason to high tail it after that and I don't think I've really talked to him since.